The Pace We Keep
Most of us are moving faster than we realize.
Not always outwardly.
But inwardly.
Thoughts stack on top of each other.
Decisions are made quickly.
Moments pass without much time to notice what they hold.
There’s a kind of momentum that builds in a life.
Once it starts, it can be hard to interrupt.
Even when something in us is asking for attention,
we often keep going.
Slowing down is not always comfortable.
When the pace shifts,
things that were just beneath the surface begin to come into view.
Questions.
Feelings.
Unfinished thoughts.
This is often the moment people turn away.
Not because anything is wrong—
but because something is becoming visible.
Spiritual direction offers a different kind of pace.
Not rushed.
Not forced.
Just enough space to notice what is already present.
Nothing new needs to be created.
Only time to pay attention.